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The Sun City Texas

                     Breast Cancer Support Group

                                                                                                                                                                      PHOTO BY FAITH BURNS

The Breast Cancer Support Group provides its members with emotional and physical support, reliable information and community.

             By Cindy Bunn                     one else can.” Support groups like the one       be done, how to move forward and offer
                                               in Sun City Texas can connect the diverse        hope on a personal level.
Cancer. When the word is first                 community with the BCRC and their mis-
         spoken, it seems that oxygen is       sion of community outreach. Unlike a Sun      – Education answers all the little, hard
         sucked out of the room. You can’t     City Chartered Club, the support group           or “silly” questions.
seem to breathe; your brain is not process-    is open to any woman touched by breast
ing it; your words don’t come; the words       cancer. The group welcomes women at any       – PTSD in cancer patients is real.
you hear don’t make any sense. You can         stage of the cancer process, from initial
easily fall into a hole filled with fear, un-  diagnosis to life after treatment. Physical   – A lifer is a person dealing with meta-
certainty, anger, denial, confusion, dozens    and emotional support are provided for           static cancer that has spread and the
of future doctor appointments and medical      all things that go with the treatment and        survivor remains in treatment.
procedures. You quickly learn the differ-      life after treatment. Education programs
ence between sympathy and empathy. The         keep everyone informed on all kinds of        – Only 5-10 percent of all cancers occur
sympathetic person stands on the edge of       subjects, including treatments that don’t        due to heredity. Roughly three percent
the hole and feels concern for you. The em-    work or are unproven. There is a great           of breast cancers result from inherited
pathetic person anchors themselves outside     deal of misinformation in print and on           genetic mutations.
the hole and reaches down to help you pull     the internet. According to Ms. Gallece,
yourself out. If you understand the concept    “Dr. Google did not go to medical school!”    – According to the National Cancer In-
of empathy, you understand what a sup-                                                          stitute, 56.6 percent of all new cases of
port group is. The definition of support as    Here are some interesting facts and info:        breast cancer are diagnosed in women
a verb is to bear all or part of a weight; as                                                   aged 55 or older. An additional 20.8
a noun, it is a thing that bears the weight     – BCRC services are free of charge to           percent of new cases occur in women
of something or keeps it upright.                  anyone affected by Breast Cancer.            between the ages of 45 and 54.
                                                   The group receives financial support
The Breast Cancer Support Group in Sun             from grants, donations and fundrais-      – Many survivors give back because they
City Texas has been around since just              ers. They can, in some cases, provide        feel it is part of the healing process.
about the beginning. It is now sponsored           financial assistance to clients.             Meetings usually range from seven to
by the Breast Cancer Resource Center.                                                           15 people in attendance.
Certified Patient Navigator Marjorie Gal-       – The group sees the disease and the
lece leads the group. The BCRC mission             woman. You are not the disease.           – Confidentiality is very important. No
statement is to “provide a place to ask                                                         information is shared or discussed with-
questions, explore options, and connect         – You are a survivor from day one of            out the permission of the client/patient/
with a diverse community of survivors, lif-        your diagnosis. The support group            support group member. This includes
ers and thrivers who can relate in a way no        members and BCRC staff are survi-            spouses, partners and loved ones.
                                                   vors who help you with what needs to
                                                                                            The Sun City Texas Breast Cancer Sup-
                                                                                            port Group meets the fourth Monday of
                                                                                            each month from 1 to 3 p.m. at the Cowan
                                                                                            Creek Amenity Center/Andice Room.

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